to book my kursus people. (why do i always type it as kurus? cita2 nak jadi kurus tak tercapai agaknye, LOL!)
ya, so i have not booked a slot for our prep course. i really dunno why, it is something so basic and simple yet it slipped outta ourmy mind so many times. sighhh, really need to get it over and done with man. Yan wanted to go for 1day course cos 2day is too much for him and he doesnt want to waste time. 9am to 6pm, 1day dah. takya nak go again the next day. fuss free. anyway, the objective is to just get the ticket to get married wat rite? sorry to be so blunt but thats just how it is.
so, can we register R.OMM online before going for kursus or do we have to go for the kursus first then can register?
My Wed Dreams 
i’ve been hearing news that kursus rumahtangga is no longer compulsory….. so i guess whether you dah pergi kursus ke belum, you can go ahead and register with ROMM asalkan dah 150days before wedding date…?
yeah, i read ur convo with prettyposy and her post on the same subject as well. but at the same time, at least kursus can prepare u for marriage life rite? so i guess i better go, early or late oso still have to go.
ah, okay, okay. when the first person told me, i was skeptical actually, but after a few people dah cakap and confirm they called ROMM then i guess it’s true…
and yes, even if it’s not compulsory already, i feel that the kursus is something every couple yang about to get married should go.
some people say boleh save $300, but the knowledge and skills that you learn at the kursus will be worth more than the price. hope you decide your kursus date soon!
i will go la just in case they ask for it and also for the knowledge. i woudnt want to plunge into the being married life with closed eyes also, we may have our personal views but its good to have the views of the ustaz/ustazah oso. we are all not ermmm perfect anyway.
thanks for the input farna, i will decide as soon i can get into Yan’s big head LOL!
Nunu lagi tros tak pergi. Really living up to her gangster persona. Entah entah dia bantai sesiapa yang suruh dia gi hahahaha
oi! hahaha omg korang labelling me as gangster now?! HAHAHAHA i went ROMM first then i went for kursus. but some of my friends no go also. gung ho! haiyakkk
becos u asik nak bantai and bedal org aje HAHAHAH!! kan da kene label.
ohh i think kene pegi jugak but up to u wthr nak go before or after romm register. i think if go pun bagus jugak la, prep for marriage life *mengeluh*
Yah just go for the sake of going. Hahaha tak baik sey I bukan pembantai. Hahaha
like i said, the cert is like a ticket to get married ma.
kene buat Nunu nye meme seh ni mcm HAHAHAHAHAH!!!
Dia actually tengok kadi tau. Like my kadi don’t even wanna look at cert or hantaran. He just wants to see if wali and saksi(registered) is there. 🙂
sape ur kadi ni so bagus and straitforward! takya hegeh2!
yah he is super nice and soft too. our solmenization was 2pm but i think he reached about 1.20pm. started at 1.45 and all finished by 2pm. he is..(ALAMAK I KENE CARI!) Syed something
http://app.romm.gov.sg/about_marriage/romm_kadi.asp ah nah! Syed Ahmad bin Syed Mohamed
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! i think she went after registering(?) tu dia da reply tu, watch out ah u nanti kene bedal ngn dia 😛
Hi babe, i went for one day course also..
i went for kursus..and register romm 2-3 mths before.wedding..
1 day is more personal kan? cos 1 to 1 with ustaz/ustazah. eeee! takot! 😛 takot dpt yg strict heh.
U know… For that particular moment i actually read ur first sentence as “kurus”!! And i was thinking y u had to book kurus ppl!! Hahahaah … Then i re-read again it’s kursus sak! LOL…
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! u read as kurus but i tertype kurus. ni nak kurus but belum kurus2 lagi 😛
eh dah takyah gi kursus? SRSLYYYYYYYYYY
EPPP!
call ROMM first to confirm, skali last min tukar lagi abeh belum pegi kursus mcm yeye nak kahwin then tak dpt mcm mane LOL! but to be safe, just go la for preparation 🙂 u haven go?
i go already! kalau i tau dah takyah gi kurus then tak lah burn $300 kannnnnn hahahaha
dah check dgn ROMM?
ish! naughty eh!
i belum check but i would rather just go kursus and gain knowledge plus the cert of cos than nak kahwin skali dorg mintak tgk cert abeh kita takde, amcm babe? LOL! be safe than sorry katakan.
Hahahaha yeah la.. it was fun! Go book go!!!
i will…SOON! LOL!
1 day course can mean personal or express.
If tak silap – APKIM 1 day course; half day is personal, lagi half day then in a group.
The one in Arqam , although it’s 1 day but it is conducted in a group. Kalau tak silap lah..:)
and oso scary if u get a strict ustaz/ustazah O.O
i think we will decide on APKIM one, since we malas nak mingle ard 😛 thanks for the info!
Go 1 day senang. Get it done and over with. Went with Apkim, got Ustaz Ali and he was awesome! Our session, very unsur Islam laa but he made it palatable and in fact very enjoyable. Its like you keep hearing weird things like nak ahem ahem in Islam must dlm gelap and undercovers, but dah clarify and tak payah eh! The kursus is useful in terms of you get to clarify stuff you don’t want to ask your parents. And Ustaz Ali was like, “Segeram geram awak dgn pasangan awak, jgn sesekali di depan anak awak awak memburukkan pasangan awak.” This one stays with me because so many parents I know, mine inc. like to include kids in spousal arguments. Oops mcm gini I conduct the kursus for you aje laa 😉
part ahem ahem tak payah in gelap tu happy nye! LOL!
wahh boleh la u conduct just for me n Yan, tak awkward sgt. ya Yan wanted a 1 day one, get it over n done with, tanak waste time and waste another day. we are leaning towards APKIM now la and i hope we dun a strict teacher 🙂